Change is hard. Changing the little things can seem like a big deal, until the big things change. It's the big things that cause me to reevaluate my life. As hard as changing the big things can be, these are the changes that have given me the opportunity to redefine my dreams and make them reality. Big changes allow me to winnow out the unnecessary and remove the weight of the needless baggage I've accumulated through inattention.
I choose how I define passage from one life to the next.
"...I shall go with the changes,
I shall look far out over golden grasses
And blue waters.
There are no farewells."
-May Sarton Gestalt at Sixty